浅析原生家庭对子女恋爱心理的影响

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                        摘要
爱情是自古以来恒古常新的话题，每个人都期待得到幸福美好的爱情。然而随着恋爱的不断深入发展，双方关系中矛盾的不断出现，我们可以反思的一个角度是：在两性关系中我们的父母、原生家庭是怎样影响着子女的恋爱心理呢？原生家庭不仅对子女的择偶会产生一定的影响，对子女的恋爱心态及行为方式都会产生影响，同时还有可能引发童年未愈合的伤痛。为此，我们应该积极寻求完整自我的实现，学习培养爱的能力，有效避免原生家庭的不良影响，勇敢面对经历童年创痛，积极实现二次成长，成为一个能为自己负责，能滋养自己、照顾自己，一个具有爱的能力，懂得爱、珍惜爱的人，这样才能找到也必然能找到生命中的真爱。
关键词：  原生家庭  完整自我  童年创痛 

Abstract
 the love is the permanent topic from of Old, everybody anticipates the happy love. However, along with the unceasingly in-depth develops of the love and unceasing appearance in bilateral relations contradictory, an angle that we may reconsider, how the parents and the Family-of-Origin are to be affecting children''s love mentality in intersexual relations? The primary family not only affect that children select his or her consort to a certain extent，but also have the influence to children''s love mentality and the behavior, meanwhile will have the possibility to initiate nonhealing grief in childhood, for this reason, we should positively seek complete self-realization, gain ability to love, effectively avoid the adverse effect caused by the Family-of-Origin, bravely face the pain experience in childhood, realize growth again, become one to be able to responsible for oneself, can nourish itself, can look after oneself, can have the loving ability, understood loves and treasure the loves. Only like this could children find and inevitably find the real love in the life.

Key word:     Family-of-Origin     Complete self     The pain in childhood

目  录
摘要…………………………………………………………………………………II
ABSTRACT……………………………………………………………………………III
引言…………………………………………………………………………… ……1
一、原生家庭的涵义界定………………………………………………… ………1
二、研究方法……………………………………………………………… ………2
 (一)文献研究法……………………………………………………………………2
 (二)访问调查法……………………………………………………………………2
三、 原生家庭对子女恋爱心理的影响结果及分析………………………………2
(一) 原生家庭对子女择偶的影响 ………………………………………………2
(二)原生家庭对子女恋爱态度及行为方式的影响………………………………4
 (三)原生家庭造成的童年伤痛在恋爱中的再现…………………………………7
四、探索与思考………………………………………………………………… …8
 (一) 积极寻求完整自我…………………………………………………… ……9
 (二) 克服原生家庭的不良影响，积极调整恋爱心态和行为方式……… ……9
    1. 培养良好的沟通与相处模式………………………………………………9
    2. 不要苛求完美………………………………………………………………9
    3. 听听“心”的声音…………………………………………………………10
    4. 接纳对方真实的自己………………………………………………………10
    5. 学习“中庸之道”……………………………………………………………11
 (三) 勇敢经历童年伤痛，积极实现二次自我成长………………………………11
五、结论………………………………………………………………………………12
参考文献…………………………………………… ………………………………14
致谢………………………………………………………………………… ………15